There. I'm 40 now.

Or will be at...whatever time. It's off to a nice start; flowers from Dad (with help from Bob and the neighbor), and good wishes via Facebook about every 10 minutes, at least now while people are still logging in for the day.

We'll have dinner and a video with the kids later, because what I really want is for all four of us to be able to spend time together - we do, a little, but we're still taking it pretty gradually, so dinner and a movie, all sitting together on the couch; that's what I want.