tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11428766.post2608176228141267333..comments2023-09-20T04:04:07.170-06:00Comments on A Few Choice Words: SuperficialJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16453489879246452921noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11428766.post-25790921722878285452008-05-26T23:25:00.000-06:002008-05-26T23:25:00.000-06:00been there done that.i get it.{{{{{jen}}}}}that is...been there done that.<BR/><BR/>i get it.<BR/><BR/>{{{{{jen}}}}}<BR/><BR/>that is all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11428766.post-38896865236039086382008-05-12T10:29:00.000-06:002008-05-12T10:29:00.000-06:00*hug*btw - I love John Denver.*hug*<BR/><BR/>btw - I love John Denver.Brave Sir Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11885043536453757210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11428766.post-60356584485878498462008-05-11T14:31:00.000-06:002008-05-11T14:31:00.000-06:00What PD said.You blog about what you choose to blo...What PD said.<BR/><BR/>You blog about what you choose to blog about. You're not obligated to "share" anything which you do not wish to share. Anybody who wants more than what you are plainly willing to share - which would mean you put it up here already - is, frankly, maybe being a bit of a snoop.<BR/><BR/>Some folks turn their blogs into confessionals. I tend not to read those. So don't apologize for anything.<BR/><BR/>Write what you want. Share what you choose.<BR/><BR/>And remember that we are holding you and yours in our hearts.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11428766.post-36609815864656915532008-05-11T00:12:00.000-06:002008-05-11T00:12:00.000-06:00You have my hugs, too, Jen.I often find myself not...You have my hugs, too, Jen.<BR/><BR/>I often find myself not blogging in detail about interpersonal stuff at my blog -- for many reasons -- for one thing, the situation is often much more complex than I can do justice too, there are questions of what parts of the story are really "mine to tell", questions about my own objectivity, and the simple conundrum of trying to put a fluid process into fixed words.<BR/><BR/>IMO, you don't have a "responsibility" to blog about <I>anyone</I> else's experience, pain, or perspective in this situation -- anyone can start a blog, or write a journal, or seek out a friend to express themselves to. This is <I>your</I> space, and you get to write it how you want it. <BR/><BR/>That's my two cents, anyway.<BR/><BR/>Taking care of <I>you</I> is job 1, AFAIC -- because taking care of your kids is job 2, and an exhausted and burnt-out momma is not much use to hungry cubs.<BR/><BR/>{{OJenO}}PortlyDykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08598941981828041835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11428766.post-16247850410644210932008-05-10T17:54:00.000-06:002008-05-10T17:54:00.000-06:00big hug to you from me toobig hug to you from me tooStevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09113649615898017098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-11428766.post-12513227116271438692008-05-10T17:50:00.000-06:002008-05-10T17:50:00.000-06:00I know that this was not an easy post to write. Ea...I know that this was not an easy post to write. Each person involved will experience the changes differently, as you know. I empathize with your desire to not hurt anyone at this inherently painful time. You don't need platitudes from me about how everything will be okay because okay is going to be hard to define in the coming weeks, months, years. You do, however, have my ear if ever you need it.<BR/><BR/>Big hug to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com